Last week, Hall of Fame manager Joe Torre hosted the annual gala for his Safe At Home Foundation – an organization he launched in 2002 to support children and families affected by domestic violence. What began as a personal mission has grown into a powerful movement that provides education, resources, and safe spaces for young people who are experiencing trauma at home.
I had the opportunity to cover the event and speak with the former Yankee skipper on the red carpet. When our conversation shifted toward the heart behind his foundation, Torre shared something deeply personal.
“They need to find somebody to talk to. I never did. What was going on in my home with my dad abusing my mom… As a seven or eight-year-old, I saw him threaten her with his gun – he was a policeman. I kept it inside, really didn’t share it.”
Hearing a Hall of Fame manager – someone known for calm leadership, championship success, and steady presence – express how much he carried alone as a child was incredibly powerful. Even the strongest people we admire often come from experiences we may never know about. So many kids today go through major or minor challenges but stay silent because they don’t know who to trust, or they fear being judged, misunderstood, or ignored.
Growing up, it can be easy to assume your peers are the safest place to confide in. But sometimes immature friends laugh off serious concerns, or they repeat something they shouldn’t. Opening up to the wrong person can make a tough situation feel even worse. That’s why finding a trusted adult or genuinely supportive friend is so important.
Whether it’s a teacher, coach, mentor, counselor, family member, or someone in your community who has proven to be steady and dependable – having that one person you can go to can make all the difference. A real support system helps you process what’s going on and gives you guidance instead of judgment.
If there’s something weighing on you – big or small – don’t carry it alone. Torre’s story proves that silence can stay with you for decades, but opening up can be the first step toward healing. If you’re in a position to be that trusted person for someone else, especially a young athlete or student, don’t underestimate the impact you can make just by listening.
We’re all stronger when we speak up, and even stronger when we support one another.
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